Marriage and Family Wisdom

A happy marriage is built on mutual effort, not one-sided giving. Both partners must be

willing to contribute, support each other, and share responsibility in order to create lasting

harmony.

When a wife takes on the bulk of household responsibilities and childcare on her own, a

subtle but powerful imbalance begins to form in the relationship. Over time, she may start to

feel unappreciated or even aggrieved, especially if her efforts go unnoticed or are taken for

granted.

What begins as physical exhaustion can quietly grow into emotional weariness, and that sense

of being unsupported often transforms into resentment. This imbalance doesn’t just affect the

wife’s well-being—it impacts the couple’s emotional connection. Left unresolved, it can

create a widening distance between husband and wife, weakening intimacy, communication,

and trust.

The key to maintaining a healthy marriage lies in appreciation and gratitude. Couples should

learn to praise each other, show responsibility, and make the effort to truly understand one

another.

Beyond the relationship between husband and wife, families also need to spiritually cultivate

together. Shared spiritual practice helps strengthen bonds, encourages compassion, and

creates a sense of unity. In turn, this leads to harmonious families where love and respect can

flourish.

Teacher Lu with thirty years of experience in guiding families shows a simple truth: both

husband and wife must continuously reflect on themselves. Only by doing so can a marriage

remain strong and endure over time.

Interested in learning more?

Book a Family Harmony Consultation with Teacher Lu Xia or contact us to explore how we can support your family’s well-being.